The journey to parenthood is a blend of hope, excitement and uncertainty. For many individuals and couples, choosing surrogacy is profound and emotional, and it takes careful thought and planning. This guide breaks the journey into five phases so you feel informed at every step.
| Phase | Typical time |
|---|---|
| 1. Exploration and agency selection | 1–3 months |
| 2. Matching | 1–3 months |
| 3. Legal and medical foundations | 1–2 months |
| 4. Pregnancy | 9 months |
| 5. Birth and beyond | 1+ month |
Phase 1: Exploration and agency selection (1–3 months)
Research your options and the two types of surrogacy: gestational, which uses an embryo created from the intended parents’ or donors’ eggs and sperm, and traditional, which uses the surrogate’s egg. Royal Surrogacy exclusively facilitates gestational surrogacy.
Choose an agency that emphasizes transparency, has positive reviews and offers comprehensive support. Ask about matching success, processes, fees and support systems. Read our guide on how to find the best surrogacy agency. At Royal, consultations are confidential and carry no obligation.
Phase 2: Matching (1–3 months)
Intended parents and surrogates are paired on shared values, goals and preferences. If you value fitness and health, for example, a surrogate with a wellness background may be a great fit. We create a profile telling your story, review surrogate applications for compatibility and legal requirements, and arrange the first meeting. See how matching works.
Phase 3: Legal and medical foundations (1–2 months)
Contracts clarify everyone’s rights and responsibilities, and medical screening confirms the surrogate is ready for a healthy pregnancy. Fertility specialists then schedule the embryo transfer.
Phase 4: The pregnancy (9 months)
Regular check-ups and ultrasounds follow a successful transfer. Open communication matters: if you want to attend ultrasounds, for example, discuss it early.
Phase 5: Birth and beyond (1+ month)
The birth plan covers who attends and how the transition to parenthood unfolds. Intended parents meet their child in the delivery room, and the legal team makes sure pre-birth orders are in place so their names are on the birth certificate. Support continues after birth for everyone.
The path forward
Surrogacy is complex, with emotional highs and lows, but it is also full of hope. Breaking it into phases lets you approach each step with confidence, and you don’t have to do it alone. Start with a free consultation.