Royal Surrogacy has matched hundreds of intended parents with compassionate, thoroughly screened surrogates. Your matching specialist guides you through the emotional and practical side of matching. At your first consultation they learn about your values, expectations and hopes, then review our surrogate community for women who share them.
The first meeting
Introductions usually happen by video call. Both sides can ask questions and get a feel for each other, with no pressure to proceed unless everyone feels comfortable.
The five matching criteria
- Location. We prioritize surrogates in surrogacy-friendly states to protect your parental rights. If you live in a restrictive state, we handle the interstate logistics. See surrogacy law by state.
- Social and communication. Text updates, weekly video calls or a more independent relationship, plus expectations about visits, appointments and contact after birth.
- Medical preferences. Number of embryos to transfer, views on selective reduction and termination, delivery preferences, hospital choice and vaccinations.
- Financial alignment. Budget and compensation expectations are agreed from the start so no one is surprised later.
- Values and lifestyle. Diet, activity during pregnancy and approach to prenatal testing.
Preparing for matching
- Share your story. Family photos and a personal letter about who you are, why you chose surrogacy and what the journey means to you.
- Be transparent. Honesty about your expectations, boundaries and hopes is the foundation of a trusting relationship. There is no perfect profile, only an authentic one.
- Stay open-minded. Strong partnerships often come from unexpected connections built on mutual respect, even when a surrogate doesn’t match every initial preference.